Some marriages* need help to stay together…

Others need help to end.

Divorce can be painful. Work with an experienced mediator to move forward efficiently and effectively.

* We mediate all partner relationships

Center for Mediation & Training in New York

Since 1983, the Center’s mediators have helped thousands of families and couples through the divorce process. Our family and divorce mediation services and training programs are the product of over 35 years of experience.

Mediation for Couples and Families

Learn how mediation can help resolve issues related to child support, parenting schedules, custody disputes, spousal maintenance (or alimony) and other matters, in a private setting without the need to go to court.

Mediation Services

Mediation Training

Develop the skills and expertise needed to open your own private mediation practice. We offer basic and ongoing professional training for students from a variety of professional backgrounds, including attorneys, therapists, and financial professionals.

Mediation Training

Support for First Responders

The Center is offering an hour of complimentary mediation to support first responders and their families.The ongoing COVID-19 pandemic has been a significant source of stress for many families. In recognition of the invaluable work being done on the front lines to...

Save Time & Money

In New York state, the average cost of a divorce without children is $17,100, and $25,600 with children.* Attorney fees, which can be kept to a minimum in mediation, account for the majority of this cost.

While the amount of time needed to complete the process varies depending on a family’s situation, mediation is widely recognized as being one of the most efficient and affordable ways to get divorced.

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Protect Your Children from Conflict

Are you concerned about how your divorce will affect your kids? The most important thing that you can do for your children’s well-being is to minimize their exposure to your conflict.

Long-term studies show that mediation significantly reduces court involvement, improves parent-to-parent communication, and is linked to better outcomes for children up to 12 years after their parents’ separation.**

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Customize Your Agreement

Mediation empowers couples to develop tailor-made agreements that meet their unique needs and interests.

Clients maintain control throughout the process, taking ownership of the decisions that will affect their lives moving forward, rather than simply entrusting such matters to lawyers or judges.

Have questions about divorce mediation?

How much does it cost? How long does it take? Do I still need a lawyer? Check out our FAQ page for answers to the most common questions. If you have concerns that are specific to your situation, please contact us directly.

Divorce Mediation FAQs

About Us

An Institution

The Center for Mediation & Training was founded in 1983 by two family therapists—Ken Neumann and Howard Yahm—who were soon joined by attorney Steve Abel. In addition to providing the highest quality mediation services to the public, we have always been committed to the training of mediators and the development of the field of family mediation.

A Community of Excellence

We actively maintain a diverse network of the top divorce professionals in our community and beyond. Regardless of your situation, we can connect you with the legal, financial, and mental health professionals who are best-suited to meet your needs and fit your budget.

Our Team